Big age difference. If the couple can work?

Yes, it works. But not for everyone, of course. You might find many stories of couples with big age difference, and you don’t find many inspiring stories. So I would like tell mine..

Here is a story of how we met TRUE LOVE STORY… STARTED FROM THE PLANE.

My husband looks much younger than he is. And me, as everyone says, I think and act for the older age.

It was hard for both of us to accept this difference at first. But our hearts were so much attracted that we decided to stop reading about broken couples with the big age difference and just follow our feelings.

We also had to fight for our couple in the beginning. As there were too many judging eyes around. Nobody has believed in us. Also, my parents were trying to change my mind. But it was that moment in my life when I was not needing any approval. I felt that he is my person.

After time passed, we only got more surprised about how great we are together. I am much older mentally, which makes us meet in the middle point. Yes, he has way much more experience and knowledge about many stuff. But it doesn’t disturb me to learn more by myself and sometimes surprise him.

If I try to remember difficult moments connected to the age difference, it’s hard to find one.

Now I also know how he can keep his youth. And everything is pretty simple. He is a vegetarian already 26 years, he never drank alcohol in his life, even that his grandparents were producing wine themself. He never smoked and never used any drugs. But what he did a lot is sport of any kind and a very balanced healthy diet. Plus to all, a good genetic.

I don’t tell this story to say that it can work for everyone. Twenty-five years is an entire generation. And is a really big difference. But at the same time, I start meeting more and more couples like us. And we have not been shamed anymore. If you love someone and he or she loves you the same back, age is only a number after all. Inside we have completely different ages.

I tell this story to show that everything is possible. That sometimes we must switch off our heads and follow the heart. Each person and each story is unique. I was afraid a little bit, but now I am super happy that I didn’t back off from my happiness. Only because my head was too reasonable 🙂

If you also have a similar story, please share it with me.

Yours,

Marghe.